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Definition of Success

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About a million years ago, or that’s what it seems like to me now, I was interviewing for my first management position.  I prepared well, and knew I had tough competition. The interview went well, until the last question. What is your definition of success?

Well I was not prepared for this question.  It was one I had never really considered before.  As I took a minute to gather my thoughts, I explained that success to me was lying down on my pillow every night knowing that I did the very best I was capable of doing with each person and situation I encountered that day.  I told my interviewer that if I did no harm and where-ever I could help, I did, I felt successful.  After I left the interview I chastised myself about giving that answer.  I convinced myself that she was probably expecting some brilliant career goal and all I rambled on about doing the right thing.  After I had a chance to reflect on my answer, I realized this was truthfully what I believed, but, oh couldn’t I have said it a little less naïve.

She called me back the next day and not only offered me the job, but told me the reason I got the job was the honesty in which I answered her question about success.  Go figure, I went on to have a great relationship with my boss and learned a great deal from her.  Even more important, I learned that honesty is really the best policy.  The most robust form of success is that achieved as an outcome of helping someone else.  And maybe back then, I didn’t say it as eloquently as I might today, but it still feels like success.

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2 thoughts on “Definition of Success

  1. Shantideva, an eighth-century Indian monk:
    “All the happiness in the world comes from thinking of others; all the suffering in the world comes from thinking of only oneself.”

    -“The Buddha in your mirror” Middleway Press

  2. If you find that you feel you have failed to deal with a certain situation that involves another person in a way that does not satisfy you personally, but that person learns and grows from the experience in a positive manner, then this is still success.

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